AIM payment method question

Hi All,
I'm editing my post to make it more concise... Going insane with this issue. Please help, please help, please help.
I'm using Open Cart, version 1.5.6.

Issue 1: Customer paid for products using credit card. I didn't have SSL set up yet, though. Her card was charged but the money still isn't in my account. I did a test charge on my own cc and had the same result. Please help!!!

Issue 2: SSL is installed, to my knowledge, but the credit card AIM payments are STILL not making it to my bank account.

Issue 3: How do I get the "date modified" and "date added" to reflect the proper date? As of now the dates added and dates modified show the month of march (should be December).

The payment issue is something to contact your payment processor or bank about.

The "date modified" and "date added" and generated by the SQL NOW() function, so could be a server configuration issue.