I hope somebody can help me, because I am getting crazy. I read everything that is written about it on this forum.I have searched for a solution now for 3 days long and still don’t have a solution. Please help me…
The problem
The customer mails are being received. But I don’t receive the alert and contact us mails. I cant see what the problem is since I cant see anything in the error reports.
Specifications
Opencart version: 1.5.1.3
Using Google apps to send and receive mails
I am not using an ssl certificate at the moment
The way I set up the tab Mail at this moment in Opencart:
Mail Protocol: Mail
Mail Parameters: Blank
SMTP Host: ssl://smtp.gmail.com
SMTP Username: <your Google Apps Admin e-mail address>
SMTP Password: <your Google Apps Admin password>
SMTP Port: 465
SMTP Timeout: 5
New Order Alert Mail: Yes
I already tried the following thing but they did not help:
1. Switch mail protocol to SMPT
This made the problem worse. The customer mails don’t get delivered as well when I use this option. Besides that I received the following errors in the error report:
PHP Warning: fsockopen() [<a href='function.fsockopen'>function.fsockopen</a>]: unable to connect to ssl://smtp.gmail.com:465 (Connection timed out) in /home/xxx/domains/xxx.nl/public_html/system/library/mail.php on line 161
PHP Notice: Error: Connection timed out (110) in /home/xxx/domains/xxx.nl/public_html/system/library/mail.php on line 164
2. Changed SMTP Port to 587
No difference: the customer mails are being received. But no alert and contact us mails.
3. Added Mail parameters: -finfo@mywebsite.nl
No difference: the customer mails are being received. But no alert and contact us mails.
4. Changed SMTP Host to: smtp.gmail.com
No difference: the customer mails are being received. But no alert and contact us mails.
5. Enabled SSL in Opencart seetings
No difference: the customer mails are being received. But no alert and contact us mails.
6. Enabled SSL in my GOOGLE apps amdin
No difference: the customer mails are being received. But no alert and contact us mails.
As you can see I tried a lot. Can somebody pleasssssssssssseeeeeeeee help me. I am loosing it here

Thanks in advance.