default modification status disabled?

oc 3.0.x
after i install a module, how can modification default status be disabled?

i would like to enable (or disable) and rebuild my modification cache after i install and enable a module from Extension menu.
i can use this code so as to enable it.

$this->model_setting_modification->enableModification(my_modification_id);
$this->response->redirect($this->url->link('marketplace/modification/refresh', 'user_token=' . $this->session->data['user_token'] , true));

i am asking if there is a way of making default stautus of a modification "disabled"
if i install a module which has modification, events and a creation of a new lookup table for example
it will want to be installed so as to create the table, activate the events and make the modifiactions,
if only modification is enabled it will occure some mistakes.

why you can control events and other things from installation and not the status of a modification?

i believe that i can solve my problem if i use the install.php file in foo.ocmod.zip
can anyone give me an example of the content of this file (install.php) which it will be in a custom extention?
i cannot find any documentation about the stracture of this file.

i would like this to happen:
after i install a module, its modification to be disabled?

to run this code inside install.php

$this->model_setting_modification->disableModification(my_modification_id);

as i can see in v2.3.x inside *.ocmod.zip you could have those files:
install.sql
install.xml
install.php
/upload forlder

but now in v3.0.* you can only have install.xml and /upload forlder

so i dont believe that is a solution to my question

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the only way is to use a fix so as to do it by altering a file
FILE: admin/controller/marketplace/install.php
LINE: 318
CODE ADD: LINE: 330
CODE REPLACE: and inside install.xml use this tag
<modification>
<status>0</status>

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Conclution:
it use' s $status as a variable $data['status'] when oc adds the modification
ModelSettingModification->addModification($data)
why not to be programmers choice to be 1 or 0 (enabled or disabled) ?

can i request this as fix for new oc version??